The photo above means something. It represents the last time I went on a walk with my son in our neighborhood before he moved away.
The photo above also means something. It represents the last time I had lunch at school with my son before he moved away.
Last night my son left in a moving truck with his mom to the state of Washington. His mom and I are divorced. Both of our families and many dear friends live in Washington. My son will be surrounded with many people who will love and look out for him. I am thankful for that.
See the photo below. It was the last time that Devon and I carved a pumpkin together before he moved away.
The last walk. The last lunch. The last pumpkin carved. It all means something to me. Memories that will linger. Moments never taken away. These moments and memories make me miss him more today.
Remember that your friends love you dearly and are here for you during this very difficult transition. Whatever you needs, you know we're only a phone call, text, tweet, Facebook post away.
ReplyDeleteMan, Mike, all I can say is I'm prayin' for you. Such a tough, tough thing you're going through. As the child of a home that was similar, I just have to say, although I wasn't with my dad, I knew he loved me. And I wish we would have talked on the phone much, much more than we did. It'll help the little guy to hear your voice... and it'll help you, too, probably, although it might feel like your heart is repeatedly being pulled out through your ribs. Like I said, I'm praying for you.
ReplyDeleteMy heart is breaking right now Mike. You know I'm here and you know I'm praying.
ReplyDeleteMy heart is breaking for you because I'm someone on the other side of relationship here. Make sure he knows he's loved by you and make sure you he knows that he's most important in your life. I'll be praying for you.
ReplyDeleteNothing I can say can make it better, but I love you and I'm praying.
ReplyDelete"May our Lord Jesus Christ himself and God our Father, who loved us and by his grace gave us eternal encouragement and good hope, encourage your hearts and strengthen you in every good deed and word." 2 Thessalonians 2:16, 17
Praying for and with you Michael. God hears the sries of your broken heart, and in ways only He can, He will give ashes for your mourning and create a thing of beauty that will gorify His name.
ReplyDeleteMike, as someone who has experienced what you're feeling now every day for the last 5 years, you are in my prayers.
ReplyDeletePraying for you brother!
ReplyDeleteMike if you need anything I'm only around the corner during the day and only a phone call or text away. Much love and big hugs to you.
ReplyDeleteMy heart breaks for you and him both. Prayed for you just now.
ReplyDeleteLuv ya Mike and prayin for ya both!
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry, Mike.
ReplyDeleteit must be so hard. I can't even imagine!
Mike,
ReplyDeleteDon't understand, but really don't need to. Grieving the loss of your marriage and the loss of a cherished and most beloved friend...
I am so sorry, Mike. Praying for you and grieving with you. Wishing a job would open up for you in Washington.
ReplyDeletePraying for you in this time of transition, Mike. I love you bro.
ReplyDeleteMike, So sorry you are experiencing so many lasts today. I know that God has a plan for you and its better than anything you can think of. It just sucks today. The only other thing I know for sure is that God sees around corners. Please find hope in knowing that you have a ton of people praying for you.
ReplyDeletetext,call,or tweet. i love you, Mike. my entire family does. we're here for you 100%.
ReplyDeleteStay strong, and remind Devon just how much you love him everytime you talk.
In my prayers. I love you my Brother. Here for you when you need.
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear this mike. But thanks for sharing it with us.
ReplyDeleteBut that smile of your son shows that he loves spending time with his dad.
Mike-Let me tell you as a child from divorced parents and being split by a thousand miles years later my dad & I are probably actually closer than if we had lived together. I know how much is sucks but just keep those great memories because no one can take those from you! Then know that god is looking out for you as much as your whole community of friends
ReplyDeleteCall him, write him, bug him just to let him know how much you love him. It makes a difference. Praying for you all.
ReplyDeleteMike--
ReplyDeleteI don't know much about your situation these days, but your love for you son, for humanity, and for Jesus is obvious with every blog post.
Praying for you.
Rob.